Sunday, 31 May 2020

WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES

Hello, i'm back blogging and today i'm having my first stab at a book review, well it may just come across as a detailed synopsis because i'll be honest i'm not exactly a critic. 
                                                            
The book, Why men love bitches is written by Sherry Argov a French Author based in America, Southern California she has a presence on Radio, Television a with a second best selling book called "Why Men Marry Bitches". 
                                                               
The term BITCH i feel needs to be explained because some of us may take a glance at that and find it offensive, when actually it's empowering us Women. (Babe In Total Control (of) Herself) yes that's exactly what this book is all about. Some say it's a relationship guide, but that isn't a complete representation of what this book truly is. In my opinion it can be a number of different things, depending on what stage you're at in your love life. For me, it was an explanation for some of the things i've experienced in Men, relationships, and most definitely situationships. For others, it could be the post break-up guide you've been searching for or, for you lucky ones it could be the perfect insight to men and relationships before you've even had an encounter with the opposite sex. In which case, WOW you will literally be the bad a$$ bitch we all want to be and you will most likely have every boyfriend wrapped around your little finger, if that's what you want of course and are capable of. 

  Whilst i don't want to divulged into every chapter, it's important to know that you're introduced into what men perceive as the "Doormat" which in our world is actually "The nice girl" and how you can transition into their "Dream girl" which translates into the term "Strong Woman" in our world. Men don't often like to admit that they want a strong woman, because using the term "strong" makes them feel weak. It's also super important to use the word "want" rather than "need". Men apparently are so much more attracted to a Woman that comes across desirable, rather than needy. 

Every page you turn has an attraction principle. I will just pop a few in which will give you an idea of the different points this book covers, it's not all about them. 

"Any time a woman competes with another woman, she demeans herself" & " He'll never respect you as being able to hold your own unless you can stand on your own two feet, financially". 

If either of those statements apply to you and by that i mean if you've never lowered your standards to compete with another woman well done! Or you have done something completely out of character to attempt to try and slyly compete with another woman, well OK but you're learning and don't do it again, it really doesn't ever work. Financially i have never relied on a man, so some of these statements i was kind of going YASSS i'm a BITCH i've qualified and you will find yourself doing a lot of that throughout the book OR you may go FUCK i'm " the nice girl" that's where i've been going wrong.  

                                                   
                         
The scenarios and examples given in the book are based on American men, different ages, up-bringing's etc, i would never ever generalise men or women, we aren't all the same so please don't read this and then think every trick will work on your man or worse don't then go off on one shouting at your man that "OH so you didn't have a family meal, you lied, you just didn't want to see me". No no no i would never influence you to cause an argument with your partner this book isn't about splitting up couples or making every woman an ice queen. It's an eye opener to mens behaviour and thought process, good relationships, failed relationships and some of the reasons why. 
                                                        
This book confirmed that i had made mistakes in the past, i had become the "nice girl" in some situationships but actually i had become the BITCH i had always hoped i would be since 2018 without me even realising. Reading this, hasn't made me hate men, it's made me appreciate the good ones, understand the bad and learn to let go of the little things, because really they aren't so big. 

Thank you to my friends Lauren and Michelle for recommending me this book, if it wasn't for you girls i wouldn't have discovered i was on the right path. One to keep on your book shelf, recommend to your friends so you can all then have a large glass of vino and a good old natter and put the world to rights post Why Men Love Bitches read. This book is available on amazon.

Happy Sunday, Love H x 
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